tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post8236720579079507127..comments2023-03-23T01:26:26.783+08:00Comments on Girls will be Girls: Leaving your little toddler behind for workSupergirlfriendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00070405637760875796noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post-76552413311154336522008-06-20T13:23:00.000+08:002008-06-20T13:23:00.000+08:00hey oofooi..yeah, I'm a little upset as well. But ...hey oofooi..yeah, I'm a little upset as well. But since it's a decision that the lady herself is so proud of, we can't say much as outsiders..It's her life anyway.. :)<BR/><BR/>hey zewt, yeah...people always learn things when it's all too late already. Can't turn back time eh? That's why must treasure every moment.. :pSupergirlfriendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00070405637760875796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post-62671636200901292602008-06-19T22:18:00.000+08:002008-06-19T22:18:00.000+08:00my boss used to be like that... now, everyday, she...my boss used to be like that... now, everyday, she told me she regret missing out on the growing years of her children.<BR/><BR/>some ppl just have to learn things the hard way.zewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post-22027123896355782222008-06-19T18:02:00.000+08:002008-06-19T18:02:00.000+08:00I got so upset when she left her little toddler be...I got so upset when she left her little toddler behind for her work sake! <BR/><BR/>Can I say she is irresponsible for her little one?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post-39020787990243804772008-06-19T15:56:00.000+08:002008-06-19T15:56:00.000+08:00Hey anonymous and tinytapir, hush hush..don't get ...Hey anonymous and tinytapir, hush hush..don't get so worked up. I must've hit some button there eh?<BR/><BR/>Well first of all, there are many different kinds of people in this world. Which would mean that everybody sees thing and read things in different perspectives. And what I've mentioned is just my own perspective of the situation presented upfront. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for dropping by anyway!Supergirlfriendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00070405637760875796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post-58872453265877892942008-06-19T14:21:00.000+08:002008-06-19T14:21:00.000+08:00why are you passing judgment on her? you don't kno...why are you passing judgment on her? you don't know her full situation. Perhaps her husband is a house husband or her own mother is happy to stay at home and look after her child 24 / 7? <BR/><BR/>just because she's not personally caring for the child doesn't mean the child is abused and neglected. It used to be very common and accepted barely 2 generations ago for babies to be sent to wet nurses to look after and only returned to parents after they were 3 years old.<BR/><BR/>It's better that she be happy and fulfilled in what makes her happy and fulfilled rather than having to sit at home and feel resentful of the baby and take out her frustrations on her children, like so many mothers do.<BR/><BR/>I think societal pressures / expectations on mothers to be 100% present all the time caring for their children is unfair and unnecessary - no one expects fathers to do that. <BR/><BR/>There's many different ways of mothering and there's <B>no guarantee</B> that any one way is better than the other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4630321326132100450.post-90482263620614750102008-06-19T14:02:00.000+08:002008-06-19T14:02:00.000+08:00wah, so judgmental wan ar...wah, so judgmental wan ar...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com